1. The purifying of resolution and the searching for the cause
First he should seek out of himself that the cause be not - The desire of
precedence„ being a Sheikh„ being followed. wherein are born the lusts
of sons of Adam ; this he should do, though he may see his own lust at rest and
the fires of nature extinguished.
When he seeth some of the seekers, with sincerity of desire, turn to him, and
from him seek guidance, hastily he should not be their director, but should
delay till, with penitence, true submission, and supplication to Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa),he
discovereth the truth of the state and with certainty knoweth what Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa)'s purpose
is to him in regard to their charge.
If he see that the charge of the crowd of the seekers is trial, he knoweth
caution to be necessary, and is engaged in comprehending the hidden cause.
If he see that Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa)'s purpose is that he should instruct the seekers, he
followeth Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa)'s order.
2. The knowledge of capacity
The Sheikh must regard the capacity of the murld. If, in him, he see capacity
for treading the path of those near to Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa), he inviteth him with skill, and by
elucidat¬ing the states of him who is near to Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa),
If he see that he has not much capacity for the path of the pious, he inviteth
him by admonishing, by inciting, by instructing, and by mentioning paradise and
hell.
The Sheikh urgeth the capable ones to deeds of the heart (murakiba, observance
of mystery, distinguishing thoughts), and to pure devotion.
Thus, if he see the murld's welfare in abandoning the world's chattels, or in
hold¬ing to them, he ordereth as may be suitable to his state.
Who acquireth not knowledge of the different kinds of capacity, and
discrimina¬tion as to the forms of understanding, hath no true power over the
murid.
3. Being pure (having no lot or part) in respect of the murid's property
The Sheikh must show no greed for the property, or for the service, of the
murid. With a gratification, he should not make vain his instructing and
directing, which are the best of alms (for Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa)).
When, by divine information or by true knowledge, he knoweth that, for the
ge¬neral good, he should take the property, he may do so.
If the murid desire at once to give up his property, the Sheikh may accept:
because, in return for it, he can give to the murid that state (for which he is
fit) which is the cause of tranquillity of heart.
If he knoweth that the murid will look with regret at his property, he will
allow him to spend a portion.
Once, one of Junid's murids wished to give up all his property. Junid refused
saying:—
Keep what is sufficient and thereon subsist; the surplus, give. For, after the
expending of all thy property, safe from the demands of thy desire, I shall not
be.
4. Offering
Delights of offering and of severing attachments are incumbent on the Sheikh, so
that, by observing their effects, the sincerity, and the conviction of the murid
may be greater; and the severing of attachments, easier; and the desire of
celibacy, over¬powering.
By offering, becometh sifted the murid's suspicion as to the Sheikh's state,
and, as to the truth of his sway.
According to necessity, he should distribute the excess among the poor.
5. Concordance of deed with word in invitation
When the Sheikh wisheth to invite the murid to a practice, or to an abandonment,
it is necessary that, in his own state, this (practice or abandonment) should be
evident, so that, without suspicion, the murid may accept.
Upon persons, the mere word has no great effect.
According to the hadis the murid should choose fakr (poverty), which is the
wealth of sufi,ism, and the condition of tarikat (the path to Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa)), although to
him, poverty and riches are, as 'Umar hath said, one.
6. Compassion for the weak
When, in the murid, the Sheikh seeth weakness of resolution ; and knoweth that
against lust and the abandoning of accustomed things, he hath no true
resolution, he should display kindness.
To the limit of his power, he should abridge the austerities, so that the murid
may not shun him ; and so that, in time, and by intercourse, he may gain kinship
with fukara (fakirs).
Possibly, after resolution shall h ave been incited in him, he may gradually
reach from the abyss of license (to disregard austerities) to the height of
resolution.
Once one of the sons of favour (a rich man) joined the society of Ahmad Kalansi;
and severed himself from the world.
In him, Ahmad found a weakness, whereupon, when a few dirhams were gained he
used to purchase for him bread, round cake, roast meat, sweetmeat; and to say:—
" Out from the world's favour and from association therewith, this man has come;
then fit it is to tread with him the path of compassion; and not to forbid him
delights.
7. The purifying of speech
Pure of the pollution of desire must be the Sheikh's speech, so that its effect
upon the murid may be seen.
On the heart the effect of speech is like to seed: if the seed be bad, there is
no fruit; iniquity of speech is in entering into, and associating with, desire.
Into speech desire falleth :—
either for attracting the hearts of hearers, which is unfit for the state of
Sheikhs.
or from pride of himself on account of the beauty of his own speech, which (in
the opinion of men of hakikat) is pure sin.
With the murid the Sheikh should winnow his speech from the pollution of desire
; should plant it in the heart's soil, and entrust it to Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa) to be preserved
from the bird of forgetfulness and from the power of shaitan.
On account of the pride of self, sincerity appeareth not save by observing the
lights of Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa)'s excellence and the effects of His boundless favours,—in the
splendour of which lights the glance of lust becometh dimmed ; and the darkness
of pride, extin¬guished. Then in the buffeting of the waves of the ocean of
perpetual bounty, he regardeth his own existence, much more his speech,—less
than a drop.
8. Exalting the heart to Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa) in the state of speech
When the Sheikh wisheth to speak to the murid, he should turn his heart towards
Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa), and from Him ask sense, that he may be theperfecter of time and the
compre-hender of the welfare of the hearer's state ; that his tongue may be the
speaker of Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa) ; and that his speech may be true in rendering benefit.
Thus they say:— In the hearing of his own speech he was equal to the other
hearers.
Although sooner than the spectators on the shore, the diver in the sea
collecteth pearl-shells and bringeth with himself the pearl, yet, as soon as he
issueth from the sea and openeth the shell, he is only equal to the spectators
on the shore.
9. Speaking ambiguously
When in the murid, the Sheikh seeth something detestable; and wisheth to
admonish him thereto, so that he may strive to remove it, he should not speak
fluently and conspicuously.
Nay, ambiguously he should cast the matter before the assembly, that to its
object, its tenour may lead.
Thus if, in the murid's soul, he should see :
a pride of his own deeds and states,
a claim to nearness (to Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa)) and to perfection,
a crookedness and a turning from the path of firmness.
He should relate to the assembly, in respect of it, an hadis, or a tale, of
Sheikhs ; and briefly should hint at the abomination, so that those present may
be profited. In this way, counsel is nearest to courtesy and to hikmat.
10. Preserving the mysteries of the murid
The Sheikh should preserve the mysteries of the murid, and not reveal his
manifestations and miracles. By speaking to him in private, he should render
them contemptible, saying :—
Although circumstances like these are the favour of Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa), yet, expecting and
looking for them, is the cause of the murid's path being closed. In thanks for
them, they should make return; from them, takeoff their glance; and, inobserving
the Benefactor (Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa)) through observing His favour, be engaged. Otherwise, in
loss they remain.
11. Pardoning the murid's blunder
If, in the murid, the Sheikh should see a defect in abandoning a service, or in
neglecting a rule,-----it, he should forgive him ; and thereto by kindness, by
courtesy, by indulgence, and by grace incite him.
12. Descending from (passing over) his own right
Of the murid, the Sheikh should have no hope, although it is his right; and to
his right, the keeping of the murid is a most important rule. But the Sheikh's
expecta¬tion of it is not approved ; and his descending from his right is best.
Waki says :
Once, in Egypt, with an assembly of fukara, I was in a masjid, where Abu Bakr
VVirak stood before a pillar and prayed. I said to myself, when the Sheikh
finisheth his prayer, I will salute him. When HP had returned the salam of the
prayer, he came and preceded me in salutation. I said :" Best it would have
been if I had first stood in respect." The Sheikh said : "I have never been
bound with the expectation that any one should do me honouring."
13. The allowing of the murid's rights
In sickness and in health, the Sheikh should not delay in allowing the rights of
the companions.
14. The distributing of times in respect of khilvat (retirement) and of jilvat
(rapid circular motions)
The Sheikh's time should not be plunged in communication with the people. His
power of 'hal', his perfection, his tamkln, and his presence (with others) should
not be the excuse. With perfection of hal, and of tamkin, The Holy Prophet Hazrat Muhammad (Salallah Aleih Wassllam) was not, all
day, in men's society. For asking the aid of Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa)'s bounty, of mercy, he chose
khilvat; for diffus¬ing the mercy on the people, he chose society. For the
Sheikh is necessary a special khilvat, wherein he may be employed :
in portions of devotion.
in humbling himself and in supplicating Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa) for his own sake and for others.
in asking aid so that his khilvat may be secure from being employed with people.
By the opposition of man's composition, displaying assiduity to Allah (Subhana-hu Wa Ta'laa) is
difficult; and languor in deeds is expected, and at such times, it is proper
that he should pass his time in society and thereby dispel that languor Again,
through shauk and zauk, he may incline to khjlvat and to devotion ; men may be
benefited by his nature ; and he may escape from languor.
15. The increasing of the works of supererogation (nawafil)
The boiling of his hal should not hinder him from repairing time with good
deeds. For, with perfection of hal, assiduous in respect to nawafil, was
The Holy Prophet Hazrat Muhammad (Salallah Aleih Wassllam) : — in the namaz-i-tahajjud, prayer of midnight. „ ,, chasht, prayer
between sunrise and noon. „ „ zawal, prayer after noon. „ ruza,-i-tatawwu,
fasting during good deeds. „ other nawafil. At night so long used he to stand in
prayer that his auspicious feet became swollen.
Shuyukhiat in 'Awarifu-l-Ma'arif of Sheikh Shahbuddin Suhrawardi (RA)